One of the hardest things to accept in life is that we can't control everything. Learn more about how to do that using the process of Radical Acceptance, one of the primary DBT skills, which is about identifying, grieving and letting go of that which is out of your control and not your responsibility.

 

Shame: An Overview

Learn exactly what this emotion is and the impact it is having on your life without you even knowing it.

the reason you people please

Learn the secret force driving you to keep saying “yes” when all you want to do is say , “NO”

 

radical acceptance: we all have needs

We have tried to condition ourselves out of having any wants or needs in our lives. We should be "fine" at all times, and if we aren't, we see it as something to ignore, fix, or stuff down as quickly as possible. But having needs is part of being human, and it's time we started tuning into the needs our brain and body are asking for.

Intention vs. perception: What was said vs. what was heard

These are two very different narratives -- what I said and what you heard -- and they both have value and importance in the conversation. It is important we make space to connect these two stories and open doors for conversation. Otherwise, these differences can become the foundation for stress, tension and shame.

 
 

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